Translations:Planning the Next Meetup/15/en

There is also the pressure some people feel to accept a second meeting out of politeness, particularly after being hosted or treated generously. Obligation is a poor foundation for a meeting, and declining early is generally less painful for both people than attending reluctantly.

| Conclusion=Planning the next meetup rewards directness more than enthusiasm. A specific proposal, an honest response, and a brief acknowledgement of anything that should be different tend to produce better outcomes than warm but unanchored intentions.